I was about 10 years when I met my best friend who was Chinese. His name was Thomas Lee, known then as Li Min Kwai. Tom was from Fung On village in Toisan county, Guangdong (Canton) province by way of Hong Kong. All my knowledge of Chinese and the Chinese culture started with him.
We became fast friends and I took an interest in his culture. He gave me odd things to eat and I ate them! I was one of the few people he introduced to his parents. His mother did not speak English and I wanted to speak to her. I then started to learn a little Chinese. I did not realize that there were any dialects at that time. I would later discover that my friend was teaching me his village dialect of Toisan. Toisanese also called Hoisanese is a county dialect of Cantonese. Some words I couldn’t pronounce so my friend stop teaching me. I decided that I would teach myself. What I could learn on my own was the Chinese characters. Knowing Chinese characters became helpful since I did not have to speak as much! My friend had shown me the basics and I kept a notebook with the Chinese I had learned. Tom also gave me my Chinese name Shi Tie Fun that I still use to this day! The Chinese character unites the Chinese since the spoken language (8 major dialects & many sub-dialects) don’t really matter since everyone reads the same Chinese characters.
Many years later my friend wanted to learn Mandarin Chinese which is the national language of China, Taiwan and Singapore. He invited me to go to a mini course given in a church So I went and started learning Mandarin as well as Chinese Characters. I even was using the Chinese brush he had given me years earlier. The teacher after looking at my work remarked that I should find a Chinese calligraphy teacher. He said that I would improve my Chinese writing. One day walking around my job during lunchtime my friend & I stumbled on the China Institute on East 65 Street. The China Institute is where I met Professor George Young. I signed up for two classes: Cantonese and Chinese Calligraphy. I would now get a better understanding of Cantonese and learned that my friend had been teaching me Toisanese and not standard Cantonese (Guangzhou dialect – the capital city language). From my Chinese Calligraphy I formed a special relationship with my teacher and learned from him until his death.
The best two books that helped me the most were Read Chinese by Fred Wang (Fang-yu) and Chinese Characters: Their Origin, Etymology, History, Classification, and Signification by Dr. L. Wieger, S.J. Below is a review of one of my best Chinese books.
Chinese Characters: Their Origin, Etymology, History, Classification, and Signification by Dr. L. Wieger, S.J.
This is the book (820 pages) that helped me to be able to memorize Chinese characters! Many years ago I was with a Japanese friend and came across this book. I recognized the importance of this book immediately. The author breaks down the Chinese character and shows the reader how the Chinese characters evolved. This is one of my most prized possessions. I recommend this book to anyone who wants to understand Chinese characters and how the written language evolved. The author is a member of the Society of Jesus better known as a Jesuit priest. Jesuits are Catholic scholars that study a subject to the fullest. The author has done just that in producing this great masterpiece. Anyone can learn Chinese. It was my desire to communicate with my friend’s mother. Later my interest in learning more got the best of me! After meeting my teacher, Professor George Young my journey in learning Chinese calligraphy just started. I hope that everyone may have a great opportunity in learning Chinese as I have.